Thread: Engagement rings... do you decide or let her?

Originally Posted by nerual

If you're not sure you know exactly what she likes, it's probably best to let her pick. It takes some of the surprise out, but is a lifetime of her wearing something she doesn't like worth the 30 seconds of surprise? If you have your heart set on being traditional and having the ring there when you pop the question, then just stick with simple I guess.

It's a good thing my man took me to choose, because it turns out that he and I have exactly opposite taste in rings...but then we found one we both loved.

we have totally different tast.... but its weird because she picks out stuff and then I like it.

My fiance and I talked about it quite a bit before I went and picked out her ring. I picked out the stone and setting and had the jewelry store mount it. She loved it and I liked it myself.